# Dating on the Hill **URL:** \ **Category:** Off the Hill\ **Created:** [July 12, 2025, 1:15pm UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117 "2025-07-12T13:15:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![towerdefense](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/unanimousconsent.discourse.group/towerdefense/32/28_2.png) [@towerdefense](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/towerdefense)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2025, 1:15pm UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/1 "2025-07-12T13:15:27Z")
Who’s done it? Worst stories? ---
**Author:** ![undoctrinated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@undoctrinated](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/undoctrinated)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2025, 1:28pm UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/2 "2025-07-12T13:28:05Z")
It’s tough because half the guys are douches and the other half are antisocial and awkward. I can’t find anyone and I’m so tired of it ---
**Author:** ![Vaught\_Hemingway](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/unanimousconsent.discourse.group/vaught_hemingway/32/9_2.png) [@Vaught\_Hemingway](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/Vaught_Hemingway)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:09am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/3 "2025-07-13T02:09:04Z")
The problem is you then. Women just want a good time ---
**Author:** ![undoctrinated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@undoctrinated](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/undoctrinated)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:16am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/4 "2025-07-13T02:16:20Z")
I want a long-term boyfriend. Stop projecting! ---
**Author:** ![Vaught\_Hemingway](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/unanimousconsent.discourse.group/vaught_hemingway/32/9_2.png) [@Vaught\_Hemingway](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/Vaught_Hemingway)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:22am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/5 "2025-07-13T02:22:05Z")
“Long-term boyfriend”? Get real. You just haven’t found a guy willing to put up with your drama for more than a few dates. It’s always about what _you_ want, never what you bring to the table ---
**Author:** ![undoctrinated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@undoctrinated](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/undoctrinated)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:23am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/6 "2025-07-13T02:23:26Z")
Excuse me I bring plenty to the table! I’m smart, I’m ambitious, I’m kind… and I’m not some casual fling for some entitled jerk who thinks he’s god’s gift to women. Maybe you’re the one who needs a reality check. ---
**Author:** ![Vaught\_Hemingway](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/unanimousconsent.discourse.group/vaught_hemingway/32/9_2.png) [@Vaught\_Hemingway](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/Vaught_Hemingway)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:23am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/7 "2025-07-13T02:23:38Z")
That’s what they all say. If you’re so great, why are you still single and complaining about it on an anonymous forum? Sounds like you’re the common denominator in your “tough” dating life. ---
**Author:** ![undoctrinated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@undoctrinated](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/undoctrinated)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:24am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/8 "2025-07-13T02:24:01Z")
Because dating on the Hill is tough! It’s a unique environment, and anyone who’s actually tried it knows that. You’re just dismissing my experience because it doesn’t fit your cynical worldview. Go troll somewhere else. ---
**Author:** ![Vaught\_Hemingway](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/unanimousconsent.discourse.group/vaught_hemingway/32/9_2.png) [@Vaught\_Hemingway](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/Vaught_Hemingway)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:25am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/9 "2025-07-13T02:25:15Z")
Oh, a “unique environment” Right, because people in other cities aren’t also busy, ambitious, and sometimes awkward. Stop making excuses!! The problem isn’t the “Hill,” it’s your attitude ---
**Author:** ![undoctrinated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@undoctrinated](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/undoctrinated)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:25am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/10 "2025-07-13T02:25:35Z")
My attitude? My attitude is one of frustration because I’m genuinely trying to connect with people, and all I get are guys who either play games or can barely string a sentence together. What exactly do you expect me to do, pretend it’s all rainbows and butterflies? ---
**Author:** ![Vaught\_Hemingway](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/unanimousconsent.discourse.group/vaught_hemingway/32/9_2.png) [@Vaught\_Hemingway](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/Vaught_Hemingway)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:25am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/11 "2025-07-13T02:25:58Z")
Expect you to stop whining. You’re probably going for the wrong guys, or you’re giving off some desperate vibe. Ever consider you’re the one playing games, just a different kind? The “poor me, I can’t find a good man” game. ---
**Author:** ![undoctrinated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@undoctrinated](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/undoctrinated)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:26am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/12 "2025-07-13T02:26:17Z")
DESPARATE VIBE? Are you serious? I’m just expressing my honest feelings about how difficult it is to meet genuine people here. And for your information, I’m not playing any games. I’m just looking for a normal, healthy relationship. ---
**Author:** ![Vaught\_Hemingway](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/unanimousconsent.discourse.group/vaught_hemingway/32/9_2.png) [@Vaught\_Hemingway](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/Vaught_Hemingway)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:26am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/13 "2025-07-13T02:26:58Z")
Normal, healthy relationship. And you think you’re going to find that by complaining about every guy you meet? It’s a self fulfilling prophecy. You go in expecting the worst, and you find it. Shocking. ---
**Author:** ![undoctrinated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@undoctrinated](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/undoctrinated)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:27am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/14 "2025-07-13T02:27:24Z")
I don’t go in expecting the worst! I go in hopeful, and then I’m consistently disappointed. There’s a difference. Maybe if people like you weren’t so quick to judge and dismiss women’s experiences, things wouldn’t be so bad. ---
**Author:** ![Vaught\_Hemingway](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/unanimousconsent.discourse.group/vaught_hemingway/32/9_2.png) [@Vaught\_Hemingway](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/Vaught_Hemingway)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:29am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/15 "2025-07-13T02:29:56Z")
Your experiences sound like a broken record. Always the victim, never taking any responsibility for your own choices. Maybe you need to change your approach, not everyone else. 🖕 ---
**Author:** ![undoctrinated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@undoctrinated](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/undoctrinated)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:30am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/16 "2025-07-13T02:30:27Z")
My choices? What choices am I making that are so terrible? Are you suggesting I should just settle for less, or somehow magically conjure up a perfect man who doesn’t exist on this wretched hill? ---
**Author:** ![Vaught\_Hemingway](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/unanimousconsent.discourse.group/vaught_hemingway/32/9_2.png) [@Vaught\_Hemingway](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/Vaught_Hemingway)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:31am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/17 "2025-07-13T02:31:47Z")
Wretched Hill? Sounds like you’re miserable and just want to blame your surroundings. Look in the mirror. You’re probably projecting all your insecurities onto every guy you meet, and then wondering why they don’t stick around. ---
**Author:** ![undoctrinated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@undoctrinated](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/undoctrinated)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:32am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/18 "2025-07-13T02:32:00Z")
Oh, so now it’s my insecurities? You’ve gone from saying I want a “good time” to I’m “desperate” to I’m “blaming my surroundings” to now I’m “insecure.” Which one is it, genius? Because you’re just throwing insults hoping something sticks. ---
**Author:** ![Vaught\_Hemingway](https://yyz2.discourse-cdn.com/flex012/user_avatar/unanimousconsent.discourse.group/vaught_hemingway/32/9_2.png) [@Vaught\_Hemingway](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/Vaught_Hemingway)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:32am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/19 "2025-07-13T02:32:19Z")
It’s all of them. They’re all connected. Your insecurity makes you desperate, which makes you complain, which makes you project. It’s a cycle, and you’re stuck in it. Until you break it, you’ll be alone and bitte ---
**Author:** ![undoctrinated](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/bc8723/32.png) [@undoctrinated](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/u/undoctrinated)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2025, 2:32am UTC](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117/20 "2025-07-13T02:32:47Z")
Don’t you dare patronize me. And I’m not bitter, I’m frustrated! There’s a big difference. And if anyone’s projecting, it’s you, with your endless stream of misogynistic assumptions about women!!! [Next page](https://unanimousconsent.discourse.group/t/dating-on-the-hill/117.md?page=2)